If you had really forgiven someone it will not matter what their intention were during the time you(I) was offended. – 01/18/2013
When someone hurt or offend you, forgive that person quickly. My action plan was forgive that person immediately, preferably within five minutes. So anger & hatred will not have anytime to grow it roots inside your heart. It’s like a weed that needs to be pulled out immediately. The longer it takes root the deeper it reaches and the harder it is to pull out.
So forgive immediately & ask the lord to give you this grace to forgive.